I sat here prepared to write a blog about emotional roller coasters and toxic relationships, but to be honest, I am just not in the mood for all of that today!
So let’s just put a pin in that and move on to one of my favorite things on the planet… BOOKS!
I love the smell of books and bookstores. I love the feeling of starting a book and discovering a new way of thinking or living or seeing the world. I even love that moment when you read the last words of a book that is so good, you feel a sense of grief that it’s over. Has anyone else shed a tear about this?
Here are some of my favorite books of all time!
1. MOST INSPIRING
One of the original truth-tellers, Maya Angelou was the first writer I encountered who shared her experience of overcoming trauma and adversity. I was captivated by her writing and saw myself in her story. I was also inspired that one day, I just might be able to overcome my own pain and be able to share it with others.
2. COULDN’T PUT IT DOWN
I admit that I arrived late to the Picoult Party. After reading Small Great Things, I binged on the rest of her books and was not disappointed. This one is still my favorite. I fell in love with these characters and definitely cried when it was over.
3. MOST LIFE-CHANGING
Okay, so I know I am totally cheating here, but I couldn’t pick just one book from Dr. Cloud & Dr. Townsend. Hands down, their books have impacted my life more than any others.
4. SHE READ MY MAIL
I read this gem during one of those “deconstructing my faith and pondering the role of the Church and my place in it” seasons. All I can say is, “Thank you, Rachel”.
5. DON’T YOU DARE GET MARRIED UNTIL YOU READ THIS
That title tho! I normally don’t like people telling me what to do and wouldn’t naturally be drawn to a book with such a bossy title, but man, my husband and I loved this one and answered every question! It’s filled with over 500 questions to ask before you jump the broom. Everything from “Who will take out the trash?” to “If I wanted to move away from our families for work, would you support me?” Even if you are already married, these are some good conversation starters. Tip: If you are abstaining until marriage, you might want to save the sex chapter until you are close to saying “I do”.
6. HOT MESS ON AISLE 5
Oh friends, I was the hottest of messes. Drowning in codependency, I was literally addicted to trying to “fix” other people and their problems. Conveniently, this kept me from having to face my own pain and baggage. This book helped me see what I couldn’t see and break a relational cycle that was wreaking havoc in my life.
7. LLOL-ING
It really bothers me when people type “LOL” when they aren’t even laughing. It just cheapens the whole thing. And when is the last time you actually laughed so hard you rolled on the floor? Just be honest when you text me. My friend and I came up with a way to cut through all of the mistrust and communicate more truthfully. LLOL-ING is when you are Literally Laughing Outloud. That is the gift that this book gave me.
8. IT’S COMPLICATED
Have you ever been in a situation where you are fan girling over your friend? It’s like this with Ashely Abercrombie for me. She is one of my best friends on the planet, but I am seriously the captain of her fan club! If you are tired of pretending, mask-wearing, polite silence or trite responses when it comes to controversial topics, and the pursuit of justice being reduced to t–shirt–wearing, this book is for you!
9. ADDED YEARS TO MY LIFE
I spent the first few decades of my life burning the candle at both ends, as my mother would say. This book stopped me in my tracks and awakened me to a rhythm of life that is healthier and more sustainable. When I am chasing my grandkids around one day, I will have Ruth to thank.
10. PARENTING PICK
Parenting is so personal and nuanced. Every child is different. Every relationship is different. It’s hard to pick just one book that covers it all. But what I love about this one is the focus on looking for opportunities for children to learn through experiencing natural consequences. They also have a version for teens. These are some other parenting books you may like: The Whole-Brain Child and Loving Our Kids On Purpose.
11. SHMONEY
Once upon a time, I was drowning in debt, stuck in poverty mindsets and had a pretty low financial IQ. Side rant: Why don’t they teach budgeting in school? Then, Mr. Kiyosaki took my hand, sat me down and taught me about finances in a way that didn’t make me want to have a panic attack. At least that is what it felt like when I read his book. Another one of my favorites is Smart Women Finish Rich.
12. INSPIRATION FOR WRITERS
If you are a writer, have tried to be a writer or have ever even thought about being a writer, this book is for you. This woman has had a greater impact on my own writing journey than any other. Bird by Bird is my go to for writing inspiration!
